For years, I have been floating down this river, no land in sight. I don’t remember how I got here and have no clue how to leave. I never know where the whimsy of its currents will take me. For a long time, a current of denial led the way. All the pain, the loss,... Continue Reading →
I know you will hear people tell you that you should be the main character of your own story. And there’s room for that. There are times it’s important to prioritize your story. But don’t forget that the world is bigger than you. There are times when it’s important to focus on your role as a supporting character. And don’t get caught up in thinking you’re the hero all the time. You will play countless roles throughout your life - sidekick, love interest, villain, and confidant - and all of them will bring meaning to your story. And this is not only true of you - this is true of everyone you encounter. There is a rich tapestry of a story in it all. We weave in and out of each others’ lives. Sometimes we leave things brighter. Other times we leave things darker. We always leave a mark, so take care with each person you encounter.
Choosing a Father’s Day card for my dad has always been arduous. Most have too many words for a man with few of his own. At least few that he shared with me. He probably had many words. He was an English major after all. Yet, somehow, to me at least, he was a man... Continue Reading →